She remembered who she was and the game changed.

It's hard to always remember to be kind and loving to yourself. So every time you look yourself in the mirror (and I know that’s at least 3 times a day- if you are not looking yourself in the mirror then you better stand up and do so right now)- remind the person looking back in the mirror that you are the priority, you come before anyone else. You can’t truly love others (even your partner or kids) until you know how to love yourself.

To love yourself is to understand that you don’t need to be perfect to be good- you may not be perfect but you are still good. Appreciate your goodness and feel good about it.To love yourself is to understand that no one can love you better than you can love yourself. To understand that you are in control of feeding your mind, body and soul in a good manner.

The more you love yourself the less nonsense you will tolerate. Loving yourself means respecting yourself. It means putting your desires and emotions first. It means take the actions required for your happiness. And don’t let anyone tell you that it’s selfish to love yourself because loving yourself will work miracles in your life and in the lives of your loved ones. You will be able to give them much more love after you have learnt and experienced what true love is like – true love that starts with you. 

You will be able to achieve more by loving yourself first and in return be able to give more. Loving yourself isn’t vanity. It’s sanity. It makes you indestructible and Unstoppable!